I took many counseling classes while completing my psychology degree and have always been interested in mentoring and coaching. During the pandemic, I came across a podcast discussing the challenges women face in oppressive marriages. This inspired me to pursue training so I could advocate for and counsel those without a voice. My passion for counseling was reignited, and I continued my education in Biblical counseling, trauma care, and other clinical modalities.

The people. I enjoy getting to know individuals, understanding how they think, and seeing how they view the world. The diversity of human experiences fascinates me, and I love the challenge of learning about each person—how they reason and how they navigate life.

I make it a priority to seek out people, spaces, and activities that bring joy and wonder into my life, especially because of the nature of my work. I’m learning to notice and be present in moments of peace and goodness. I intentionally pursue stillness and contemplation. Setting healthy boundaries is an ongoing process but essential for my mental well-being.

I’ve worked extensively with people in strained relationships, helping them find the words for their experiences and reclaim agency over their lives. I also assist individuals who are navigating spiritual or church abuse. I’m comfortable sitting with people in difficult situations, offering a safe space for them to express things they may not feel they can say elsewhere. I don’t shy away from the messiness.

I incorporate liturgies into everyday life. I’m passionate about not placing heavy burdens on broken backs and this compels me to pursue Jesus out of delight and not obligation. I practice ongoing prayer—praying while walking, driving, or cooking. I also seek friendships that provide candid spiritual counsel and enjoy studying whole books of the Bible slowly. My goal is to embrace wonder and worship, not just to check off tasks.

I’m currently rediscovering my hobbies. In past seasons of survival, hobbies took a back seat, so now I’m exploring what brings me joy. Walking with my husband, especially to one of our favorite coffee shops, connecting with family and friends over good meals and conversation are my favourite things! Additionally, I like to play my piano, I work on jigsaw puzzles, and I work on creating beautiful spaces in my home. I took my first overseas trip when our family spent a month in Italy, and I’ve caught the travel bug. We’ll see where that leads!

I’m a mom to four very different young men, each with their own challenges. Advocating for them and learning about their unique needs has taught me that everyone is different and requires individualized care.
I’ve also experienced chronic pain and illness, which led me to spend several years unable to do much. This time taught me to accept my limitations, to rest in my finiteness, and to embrace grief and lament. I also learned the deep joy of being united with Christ.

My trials have eroded black-and-white thinking, teaching me that many truths can coexist. One of my biggest takeaways from dark times is that truth often lives in the messy, unfinished moments of life, not in absolutes. The journey and the process are just as important as the results.

Imperfectly! People often think counselors have everything figured out, but that’s not true. The Lord teaches me gently and gradually. I also seek counseling when needed. Sharing struggles with an attuned listener can be incredibly life-giving.

You are finite, and God declared that good. Only God is all-knowing, all-powerful, and omnipresent. How would your life change if you could rest in that truth?